Sunday 23 January 2011

Inspiring stories I read when I am indecisive, Upset with someone,happy or sad



Indecisive: 
Once Buddha was walking from one town to another town with a few of his followers.. This was in the initial days. While they were traveling, they happened to pass a lake. They stopped there and Buddha told one of his disciples, “I am thirsty. Do get me some water from that lake there.”

The disciple walked up to the lake. When he reached it, he noticed that right at that moment, a bullock cart started crossing through the lake. As a result, the water became very muddy, very turbid. The disciple thought, “How can I give this muddy water to Buddha to drink!”

So he came back and told Buddha, “The water in there is very muddy. I don’t think it is fit to drink.” After about half an hour, again Buddha asked the same disciple to go back to the lake and get him some water to drink. The disciple obediently went back to the lake.

This time too he found that the lake was muddy. He returned and informed Buddha about the same. After sometime, again Buddha asked the same disciple to go back. The disciple reached the lake to find the lake absolutely clean and clear with pure water in it. The mud had settled down and the water above it looked fit to be had. So he collected some water in a pot and brought it to Buddha.

Buddha looked at the water, and then he looked up at the disciple and said,” See what you did to make the water clean. You let it be…. and the mud settled down on its own - and you got clear water. Your mind is also like that! When it is disturbed, just let it be. Give it a little time. It will settle down on its own. You don’t have to put in any effort to calm it down. It will happen. It is effortless."



Upset with someone: 
Buddha seemed quite unruffled by the insults hurled at him by a visitor. When his disciples later asked him what the secret of his serenity was, he said: 

"Imagine what would happen if someone placed an offering before you and you did not pick it up. Or someone sent you a letter that you refused to open; you would be unaffected by its contents, would you not? Do this each time you are abused and you will not lose your serenity."


Happy:
True philosopher that he as, Socrates believed that the wise person
would instinctively lead a frugal life. He himself would not even wear
shoes; yet he fell under the spell of the marketplace and would go
there often to look at all the wares on display.When one of his friends
asked why, Socrates said: "I love to go there and discover how many 
things I am perfectly happy without."

Sad:
A little wave was bobbing along in the ocean, having a grand old time.
He's enjoying the wind and the fresh air--
until he notices the other waves in front of him, crashing against the
shore."My God, this is terrible," the wave says. "Look what's going
 to happen to me!" Then along comes another wave. It sees the
first wave, looking grim, and it says to him, "Why do you look so sad?"
The first wave says, "You don't understand! We're all going to crash!
All of us are going to be nothing! Isn't this terrible?
"The second wave says, "No, YOU don't understand. You're not a wave,
you're part of the ocean."
Gia Guru Nayak





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